Monday, March 26, 2012

Separation Anxiety At Its (Not So) Finest

Two of our dear friends go married on Saturday (Congrats Bryan and Shay). We decided to leave Mckenna at home and Grandma (Ronnie's mom) was nice enough to drive up from Tucson to babysit for the day, spend the night, and then head back down to Tucson Sunday. Ronnie's brother, Grant, also came along, in case reinforcements were needed...and boy were reinforcements needed!

I was a bridesmaid, so I took off for the wedding venue to get ready with all the girls around 9AM. Ronnie spent the morning with Mckenna and then headed out for the wedding around 3:30PM. When Ronnie left...the wheels totally came off the wagon. Mckenna began to cry. They said she pretty much just cried and looked around for us...ALL DAY LONG. She stopped crying to drink minimal amounts of milk, take two 30-minute naps, and for a few minutes at a time when they could distract her just enough. But as soon as she'd look at them, and realize it wasn't one of us, she'd lose it again. Finally around bedtime, after crying through her bath (she never cried during bath time...bath time is her favorite) we told Grandma (after receiving a text saying she won't stop crying) to just give her as much of the bottle as she'll take, swaddle her, lay her down, turn off the monitor and watch TV. Luckily she was looking forward to bedtime just as much as Grandma and Grant were. As soon as she was swaddled she relaxed, and she went down no problem.

Poor Grandma and Grant. A crying baby, let alone a crying baby for HOURS ON END, can really start to wear on you. Apparently someone (cough cough Mckenna) needs a little dose of reality and we need to get out of the house more. I now just can't decided who our next victim will be that we'll leave her with. Ah..what to do? What to do?

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I feel your pain. I still remember having my wife's parents agree to watch the girls on New Years Eve so we could go out. We received a similar text some where around 12:02 asking when we thought we'd be home. We took our cue and headed home only to find grandma standing looking out the window with a very red-eyed Eva as we pulled into the driveway, then as we walked inside we found grandpa walking around the living room in a circle with a howling Cassie. Only thing worse then 1 crying baby for hours would seem to be 2 crying babies for hours :(. I felt sooo guilty. They get better about it though, really, I promise.
1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
I couldn't imagine two of her right now. You guys are saints :)
Maybe it's time for date nights once a week? Or Saturday afternoon sharing (leaving) Mckenna is friends of family for a few hours?

I'm a Cyster and had a difficult pregnancy thus went to outpatient physio after I gave birth. My sister or mother in law would babysit and Davis was great because for the first 2 years he had babysitter. YA, this so was not planned that he would be comfortable without us and it almost broke my heart when I left him with my best friend for the afternoon, at the age of two, and he waved good-bye.

My friend laughed and said I was lucky because most 2 year olds would be crying. (she did daycare).

What's really funny is I thought the separation anxiety was going to be you two:-)

fyi one thing we did do was make sure we eat in a family restaurant (not fast food but full service) at least once a month with our son. I was determined to have a child that we could take out with us to eat. I am happy to say people commented on how will behaved he was in restaurants as a toddler and still do.

Alway enjoy reading your blog!
1 reply · active 679 weeks ago
We take Mckenna out often as well and surely hope she doesn't turn into one of "those kids" :)

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