Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Sometimes You Can't Do It Alone (as well)

As many of you know Mandi and I started torturing ourselves exercising again as soon as I got out of the Hole a few weeks ago. We decided not to go it alone in our exercise routine and rejoin the GPT (group personal training) option at our gym. GPT opens up a wide range of other classes that mainly consist of booty kicking, high energy group classes meant for those that want a little more of a challenge at the gym, have high fitness goals and/or need a little extra attention from one of the many great trainers.

Our general class of choice is called Intensity and is 45 minutes of a variety of exercises at a frantic non-stop pace. For example, yesterday, in 45 minutes we had 3 minutes of break time TOTAL. The other 42 minutes we were doing exercises ranging from kettlebell swings to plank jacks to sumo squats to bar bell curls to decline pushups to straddle jumps. Needless to say, at the end of a 45 minute class, I'm sweating like I just ran across the entire Gobi desert with no water profusely and on a normal day, seeing some sort of star pattern in my line of vision.

This class in one that I love to hate. Every time we commit I'm hesitant (because I'm lazy and don't enjoy pain), but every time we do it, I ask myself why I ever stopped doing the class. Not only am I getting pushed in 45 minutes way more than I would ever push myself, but the benefits do not just stop there - I just simply feel better. I feel better throughout the day, week and hopefully, month and year. When I'm involved in the GPT classes, I'm a better husband, father, friend and human being in general (there's no actual proof of that last one, but I went with it anyway).

Simply put, there are some things in this life that we do better when surrounded by others. We need their accountability. We need their motivation. We need their energy. We need their encouragement. We need their strength. We need their help.

If you're the kind of person who struggles getting to the gym by yourself, stop going it alone. Join some classes. Meet some people. Ask for help. Get a trainer. Commit to two weeks of exercise instead of a lifetime. Go to the gym and sit instead of sitting on your couch (it's more expensive, but at least your at the gym). Stop thinking about how bad it will feel at the time and start thinking about how great it will feel in due time. Side note: I started walking normally again after my first intense workout after about 6 days. It happens.

I promise you're worth it and the person at the gym you haven't met yet that will hold you accountable thinks so too.

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Beth Peters · 613 weeks ago

Unfortunately, a lot of those battling chronic illnesss are out there alone. Most of us are not married to a child blind and independently wealthy. So just so you know, you are out there on your own without familiy or spousal support, actually YOU CAN do it on your own. YOU CAN. And you will be ok.
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Beth Peters · 613 weeks ago

*child bride." AND furthermore, many CF patients, STATISTICally speaking (which Ronnie avoids of course, all reference to fact), do not prefer to work out in groups or in public, and many more are on oxygen or experience other limiting factors that prevent us from working out at the gym such as mucus production (I know, Ronnie swears that he spits right on the gym floor, right?!), You do not have to normalize your behavior to compare yourself to able-bodied gym rats. You can work out according to YOUR PHYSICIAN"S SPECS, or go to a pulmonary program, where you will receive the support your need in a safe environments, without the guilt of comparison, that of cour Ronnie embraces here. "IF YOU AREN"T AS GOOD AS SOME ABLE-BODIED GYM RAT, YOU SUCK!"

Get advice from your physician. Not this hack.
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Liz stecklein · 613 weeks ago

Why are you s nasty, Beth Peters?
Everyone is different, and not everyone can be held to the same rules or physical regimen. However, those that do feel the need to motivate themselves might find Ronnie's advice helpful and inspirational. I know my cousin has improved her health tremendously and enjoys running in all kinds of run with friends in like-minded groups. It doesn't mean she started out as an "able-bodied gym rat", but instead she had to motivate herself and slowly but steadily work up to the high level she's at now. We don't all start out perfect and fit, it is a goal to work towards. I will pray that you get some peace of mind, because I'm afraid that you are coming off as a little bitter and angry with your situation more than Ronnie's blog posts. I hope that you improve both in mind and body.
I think you hit the nail on the head Tracy! The most common phrase used around here is "to be the best version of yourself". I don't expect everyone to love the gym (I certainly don't love it) or be drawn to exercise, but I think we all have the choice to figure out a way to be the best version of ourselves, both mentally and physically. Like you said, it's not about being perfect, it's about moving forward.
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THE TROLLIEST · 613 weeks ago

Tracy, I don't care if I AM in fact coming off as bitter and angry. When you lose a loved one to CF, you might find that you experience many emotions too. When you read a blog that tells your loved one died of laziness . . .well, yes, that may finally push you over the edge to call out some hypocrisies around you. That's part of how grief works.

And just in the case that any of you think that Ronnie doesn't LOVE this back and forth - he loves it. He loves the attention and his ability to participate self-flatulence and self-congratulation. This is the reason he leaves the comments open. If you think he is being hurt, you need to think twice (maybe three times) about the options your little web-guru has to control your experience. He doesn't mind me writing, or he would shut it down.
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Mandi Sharpe · 613 weeks ago

You're right, Ronnie loves a good discussion. He understands that people have differences of opinion, and therefore, leaves comments open so that people are able to share their opinions, even if their use of the comment section is to use him as their punching bag during a time of grieve. He knows sometimes that's what people need, and therefore takes it. I promise you if there wasn't a comment section, you would attack that too.
I haven't shut down your comments because I figured this was part of your grieving process and was something that you needed to do. I can be your punching bag if it helps you. I haven't responded because I generally don't respond to personal attacks, attacks on my family or outright lies - they don't deserve, and won't get, validation from me. If you'd like me to block your ip address so you can no longer comment, please, say the word. If you'd like to continue your grieving process through commenting on my blog, that's okay too. Your call.

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