Monday, December 14, 2009

Date Night: Hospital Edition

I have to be honest with you guys, I've been getting a little stir crazy these last few days. As I've said in past blog posts, I actually like hospital stays. Ronnie and I tend to have a lot of fun while he's in. It's a good opportunity to spend time together, with no distractions (minus nurses in and out, doctors rounding, the IV machine beeping, the RTs coming by 4 times/day and the PCTs coming for vitals what feels like every 15 minutes). This hospital stay hasn't been any different in terms of fun. We've done some wedding planning, done WII bowling, spent time with his family, gone for nice walks, listened to Johnjay and Rich podcasts, etc etc. However, this is the first time I've spent a few weeks straight in here. And I have to tell you, it's made me a little nutty. I don't so much think that what matters is being stuck in the hospital, it's being stuck in one place for too long. I just feel like the walls are closing in at times.

Saturday night, I decided that was it. We were getting out of the room. We were going to have a change of scenery. We were going to get some alone time. We were going to have a DATE. I had brought some date-making supplies with me from Phoenix, but hadn't had a chance to use them. Saturday night was the night. It also happened to be exactly one month to the day that we got engaged! While Ronnie was getting his 7PM pound, I ran to to the grocery store to get sparkling cider and to Pei Wei and picked up fried rice with chicken and no broccoli for him and blazing noodles with chicken for me. I then found a secluded table outside of the hospital with a mountain view (and a TON of romantic road noise). I put down a tablecloth, lit some candles and told Ronnie where to meet me.

Ronnie meeting me at the rendezvous point

Ronnie really excited about dinner (and his date)

Getting ready to open our bubbly (sparkling cider)

I thought it was a twist-off...but it wasn't. So we had to use finger nail clippers

Our first kiss...on a date night, while in the hospital, at that table, with Pei Wei, eating on a blue table cloth, in the month of December

We had an awesome few hours away from the hospital routine. I felt totally refreshed. It was one of the best date nights we've ever had. I really recommend other CF couples giving this a shot next time you're in the hospital together. It was exactly what we needed!

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Mandi that was too cute!! So glad you guys were able to have time for just the two of you. Keep on feeing better Ronnie!
Awe that's so awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is soo romatic of what u did Mandi! Keep on feeling better Ronnie.
That is so cute! Great idea!
This is such a clever idea. When Spencer is in the hospital we really enjoy the time together. I agree, it seems like nurses and their dogs are coming in every 5 minutes, but we enjoy the alone time together. We always have little "date" nights watching a movie or two... but actually getting out for a few hours on a date is a fantastic idea!!!!
How long do you usually stay in Ronnie?? It seems like you should be getting released soon. A standard stay for me was always 10-14 days. Well good luck~
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The last 5 years I've been averaging about 90 days a year at about 30 days at a time. It takes me a while :)
You guys are so awesome. :) I hope you are feeling better and get the heck out of there buddy..
It's the simple things that make life so enjoyable! Fresh air and a change of pace always does a body good=) Hope your hard work gets you out of there soon...
Nice break. Sometimes when you are not allowed to leave the hospital these types of things are a life-saver for your sanity!
Very Very cute!!! I will refer to it on my site!!

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