
Monday, May 10, 2010
12 Days and Counting...

We're 12 days out and boy, oh, boy am I excited. I couldn't help but think through ALL of Saturday by completing, "Two weeks from RIGHT now...." Everything from "Two weeks from right now we'll be getting ready," to "Two weeks from right now we'll be sitting eating the salad."
These last 12 days hold a lot of to-dos. We still have place cards to make, programs to print, favors to "construct", final dress fittings, arrangements to arrange, vows to write, and the list goes on. Every to-do I check off the list is with excitement, relief, and a little bit of sadness (as you only get to plan one wedding, so I'm trying to enjoy the last 2 weeks of the chaos). I have yet to turn into a total bridezilla (no comments mom or Ronnie), but my stress levels are starting to rise. I have begun to really feel the anxiousness from trying to mix my expectations of the day with everyone else's. It is beginning to get exhausting. With that said, I'm sure it's mainly pressure I have put on myself to create a day that is not only enjoyable for me and Ronnie, but our family and friends as well.
My mom has been a HUGE help. She's got an eye for detail and a brain that is wired for event planning. I'm pretty sure without her, I'd walk down the isle in a paper bag, carrying a single wilting hydrangea (did you know that without water they shrink/shrivel up within hours?? I didn't!) and eat pizza off of a paper plate. Ronnie has been incredible too. Making it to all of the major appointments, listening to me ramble for hours about details, and most of all, throwing his arm around me when I'm on the verge of a break down to remind me why I'm doing all of this in the first place. For those of you who follow the blog closely, you know that I'm the spaz, and Ronnie's always the one to put me at peace...he's remained that calming force throughout this whole process. AHHH, I just can't wait to make that Steady Eddy my hubby!
Changing gears - The house is coming along. In the 10 days since closing, we've managed to paint the kitchen, dining room, family room, master bedroom, study, living room, guest bedroom and all of the halls. Not to mention that we got some gardening done, all of our furniture moved in, other furniture bought, and the boxes unpacked. Needless to say, our house has really evolved into a home...minus the minor detail of a family living in it; that will change May 22.
So I'm sure you're reading this thinking, "oh my, I wish there was something I could do to help" (you were thinking that, right??)...well you're in luck. I have a request. Leave us some comments on how you made it through the last 2 weeks before your wedding. Were you stressed? Did you find a way to relax? Did you do anything that made the last few weeks FLY by? Do you have any last minute wedding pointers that will make our wedding the bombdigity? (Yes, I did just say bombdigity and yes that is the first word that came to mind). Clue us in!!! We'd love any pointers and words of wisdom you could pass along.
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12 Days and Counting...
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Melissa Jones-Weston · 777 weeks ago
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Lindsay · 777 weeks ago
As for the two weeks before I just kept making myself focus on what was most important - not all the minor details. The less details there are to worry about, the less stress there is. When the day finally comes, just move through it slowly and savor it. Looking back I would have made a few more decisions for me and not for what I thought everyone else wanted. But all in all, at the end of the day I got to crawl in bed with my husband and that was the best part!
Alanna · 777 weeks ago
Also while getting ready,and of course before our dresses were on, my bridesmaids and I ordered about 6 pizzas and ate about 2 hours before the wedding as well.
So yes, get a good "snack" or "meal" aka pizza in about 2 hours before hand. It will help!
Mandie · 777 weeks ago
Kelly · 777 weeks ago
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Susie · 777 weeks ago
Lindsay's advice of having something to eat is crucial. I didn't eat anything from my wedding buffet for fear of getting my dress dirty. Grab a protein bar and keep water handy. Have a special glass for your drink, because you'll misplace it a lot during the night. I must have gone through a dozen cups on my wedding day, I could never remember where I had left my drink while going from here to there socializing with everyone.
I'm sure we can all give a lot of advice on how not to stress, but in the end it's all of to you. It's your choice... so CHOOSE wisely on how you want to feel. You have the power to overcome all obstacles, you have the power to tell yourself to stop stressing. HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!
Christine · 777 weeks ago
Mandie · 777 weeks ago
The last two weeks before our wedding went by slow but also had tons to do, but with two kids I was very stressed. Just remember to RELAX I know easier said then done. I stress over everything as I sit here typing this I can now laugh about it all. Bring a change of clothes so you don't have to wear your dress all night if you don't want too. I wore mine all night. Like everyone else said eat something that day before the wedding. Remember that you and Ronnie need time to your self during the next two weeks. I stayed at my parents the night before and left the kids with the hubby and I think that added extra stress even though I had family getting them ready. I am big on being early and hubby is more on time or a little late. All in all just have FUN and ENJOY
Lisa Dwyer · 777 weeks ago
Lisa Dwyer · 777 weeks ago
Have fun and good luck guys....it will all work out, try not to stress too much....no one will know any different if something doesn't go according to plan. :)
Frances Johnson · 777 weeks ago
Second: it sounds like Ronnie keeps you calm. So Ronnie call often remind her what this all about (your love for each other)...she will probably listen to you better than anyone else. When my husband would call just the sound of his voice would put me at ease. ENJOY THE DAY and EACH OTHER!
Melissa · 777 weeks ago
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